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In addition to that, the first twenty-five who responded to this give-a-way will be receiving samples.

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Yesterday morning, I washed my hair. After that, I applied a shea butter and olive oil mix, then made two-strand twist based bantu-knots. After a couple of hours, I took them down. While they weren’t as defined as they are when I keep them in for at least a day, it still made my hair very curly and it was really cute.

Later on in the day, my daughter asked me to go outside with her to play. I really didn’t want to because I’m not an outside person. I hate being around bugs and dirt, but she is an only child and she gets lonely not having other children around, so I went out and stomached it for a bit.

When I stepped outside, I noticed that there were gnats out flying everywhere out there. I wish I would have went back into my gnat-free house. When I went into the backyard to play with Zee, there were twice as much. In fact there were so many that they were literally running into my face.

Normally, I ignore it and assume that they will either back off or die, but this time caused for an alert because there were so many gnats running into me and sticking than usual. I’m so buttered up with oils and gloss that when they touch any part of my skin, they die. One flew into the corner of my eye and another almost flew up my nose. When another flew onto my lip and got killed by my lip gloss, something told me to go in the house and check my hair as well. I have never gotten them in my hair before, but since there were so many this time around, I was really paranoid.

I went to the bathroom and noticed transparent colored things sticking out the top tip of my short curly twa here and there. The ones that I saw weren’t moving, but I had washed my hair squeaky clean earlier that day, so I know it couldn’t have been dandruff.

Sure enough, when I picked the first one out, it’s black head was revealed. It was a dead gnat. I spotted out more praying that it wasn’t a gnat, but each time, another dead gnat.

I freaked out. I know gnats can only thrive and lay eggs in moist areas, but everytime I think about bugs being in someone’s hair, the first thought that comes to mind is, “Can they lay eggs in human hair?” I learned that one gnat can lay up to 300 eggs in it’s lifespan of four months.

I picked five gnats out of my hair. The last one I picked out was actually moving it’s wing a teeny bit, but I could tell it was dying like the rest of them.

After that, I almost started to lose my sanity. I couldn’t spot anymore gnats, but I started frantically patting at and running fingers through my hair like a mad woman. I murdered my bantu-knot out in the process. :(

My hair is so thick that the ones that I found didn’t get anywhere near my scalp. I could tell it was impossible for them to move through. They were all at the front tip of my hair, looking as if they met their fate where they landed. (Could it have been the stuff that I used to moisturize my hair?) Which is great for me because in Google, I found claims where people were getting their scalp bitten into by gnats and how it caused hair loss. I’m going to assume that they had really thin hair…possibly straight?

Something then told me to call Zee back into the house and check her hair. There were two.

Ugh, we’ll never go into our backyard ever again, unless the gnats are no longer there. I’m so disgusted.

Well most of it, anyway.

When my mother saw my new hair cut, she had this brief look of horror on her face…LMAO. Oh, gosh. I wish I would have taken a picture. I’m shocked that she didn’t start verbally attacking me about it as she had in the past. She’s really changed since I went natural five years ago.

I told my dad about an accident that I passed on the way home and he jokingly said, “Are you sure you’re not talking about your hair?”

Back then, my feelings would have gotten hurt. Now I simply don’t give a flying !@#$, which is why I can butcher my hair so effortlessly. One can’t reach true confidence until they can feel comfortable in their skin despite possible naysayers.

I’m happy to say that I finally reached that confidence. You can call me “ball headed,” nappy or whatever you feel and it won’t phase me one bit. All I know is, I FEEL amazing because my beauty is defined by me and no one else. You’re beautiful too. Own it.

Short hair, don’t care.

Miss Gee

I recently received this email:

I am unsure if this is the correct place but I have a situation and want to reach all possible resources. I was a victim of racial profiling at the airport security checkpoint in San Antonio this past Sunday. After clearing the full body scan the officer told me I had to have my hair “patted”. This is in addition to the scan, which I already successfully passed. This was obviously a problem but I let her do it because I had a plane to catch. I did however ask her if that was the normal practice for African-American travelers with their hair in it’s natural state. She informed me that additional screening was necessary for “certain types of ponytails and buns”. I was still not convinced so I asked another TSA officer at my final stop if what happened to me was standard protocol. The officer stated that if I had already passed the body scan there was no reason for my hair to be “patted” (By the way my hair was in a puff that particular day). I have filed a formal civil rights/liberties complaint with TSA and I have also done research and have gotten into contact with a writer at the New York Times. He has decided to investigate and will be publishing a story for this coming Tuesday’s issue. Right now we are looking for others who may have had an encounter such as mine and had their hair patted. If so please inbox me because I would love to hear from you. The Transportation Security Administration has to know that they cannot single “naturals” and that this discriminatory practice has to be stopped.

Have you been a victim of this? Please let us know. Thanks!

I’m working on an extension of this website, bringing the digital version of this website to print. What will bring this magazine to life is those who make up the community that it caters to; young women between the ages of 18 and 35 who although embrace their natural beauty, are more than just “beauty.” Rather than being celebrity ridden like typical women’s magazines, this magazine will literally be the voice of all of you and that of which makes you who you are. You’ll help make the magazine what it is through whatever you choose to bring to the table.

Here’s a brief summary of each section:

Beauty
This section would provide hair styling tutorials, profiles on natural hair stylists, tips on how one can maintain their hair in it’s natural state, hair stories, natural hair recipes, make-up tips, tutorials and more.

Visual Arts
In addition to the artistic presentation of this magazine, the visual arts section would focus on subjects like drawing, painting, fashion design, sculpture and photography. It would showcase various visual artists and provide tips for visual artists. To promote the love for the arts, each issue would provide a spread of either a photograph or an art print that one can rip out and hang on their wall.

Performing Arts
This section would focus on subjects like acting, dancing, modeling, music and singing. It would showcase profiles of those who have a hobby or make a living in this field, along with providing tips for those who are involved in this field.

Literature
Afro Glitz would also put a strong emphasis on literature in various ways. Writers can submit short stories that can span over one issue or more. One could also submit comics (which is a rarity in most magazines in general) that can span over one issue or more. This section would also allow poets to share their work. In addition, this section would have a book club, recommending books that one can read and allowing readers to submit their reviews and tips for writers.

Health
This section would give profiles on both common and uncommon diseases. In addition, it would talk about natural remedies/alternative medicine.

Science
It’s rare for one to read about the state of the planet, or provide tutorials for a science experiment in a women’s magazine.

Technology
Whether it’s an article about the latest gadget, how one can modify their own website, this section is for everything technology.

Maya!
Maya!

Tell us about yourself.
My name is Maya Sutton, and I’m a 21-year-old student from Raleigh, North Carolina.

Maya!What made you decide to go natural?
I decided to go natural because really, I knew that I’d be bald by the time I turned 25, if not sooner. Perms did a number on my sensitive scalp. The first time I got a perm, I had scabs the size of quarters all over my head. I also decided to go natural to regain some confidence, and I’d always thought natural styles were cute (although they weren’t in “style” when I loc’d up).

I abandoned my tracks, weave glue, and needle for kinky twists. In the beginning of 2006, I started experimenting with two-strand twists that I did on my own…and by April 2006 I grew enough courage to loc my hair.

What made you decide to loc?
I decided to get locs because I wasn’t the average teenager at the time. Everyone I knew either was mixed and had “the hair” or wore weave. Very few girls at my High School had nice hair with perms. I wasn’t too worried about what was on the outside, partially because I never found myself that attractive, so I decided to loc my hair solely for embracing my natural kinks. I’ve had them for 5 years so far and loving every moment of my journey.

Maya!

What’s your hair routine?
My hair routine consists of washing and conditioning my hair with Carol’s Daughter Rosemary Mint Shampoo and Conditioner, or with Taliah Waajid’s Shampoo’s and Conditioners. My hair was originally loc’s with a crochet hook, but in October of 2006 I started palm-rolling my hair which looked much better in my opinion and made my hair thicker and less frizzy. I use the Organic Root Stimulator Lock and Twist Gel. I also use Taliah Waajid’s Healing Oyl for my scalp, and before I add my conditioner i’ll rinse my hair with a diluted bottle of Apple Cider Vinegar to eliminate dandruff. I color my hair maybe once a month or once every two months, and i’ll retwist my hair every 3-4 weeks….and any Jamaican Mango and Lime product is great.. I love their hair sprays.

What are your least favorite products?
My VERY least favorite product is wax. I have a client who, before I started palm-rolling my hair, I would use was to retwist his hair…and every time I would wash it, there would be residue and build-up. Until I started twisting my hair with it is when I truly understood the major difference between using wax and gel. I really love the Organic Root Stimulator Lock and Twist Gel because it has a great hold and does not flake at all. In 2009, I palm-rolled my hair for 2 months but then got frustrated, probably because I was being impatient, and it was also summer time which made me believe that the retwist wouldn’t stay. During that time I was using the Jamaican Mango and Lime locking gel, but I didn’t care for it only because the gel was orange and it stained my fingers and fingernails over a long period of time. lol.

Maya!

What do you like about being natural?
I love the confidence and inner strength and beauty I’ve acquired since being natural. Never do I have to worry about messing up my hair if i’m caught in the rain. I can go swimming when I want, and I’m able to style my own hair in incredible styles. I spend hours upon hours researching locked hairstyles, techniques, and routines on Youtube so I can become a better stylist for myself and for the other heads I do. I think I was limited when I had perms and weaves, but with natural hair, I know that I can be free and not have to worry about a thing.

I stumbled across this article from Strawberricurls. Apparently, a salon mixed the reader’s deep conditioner with a relaxer and applied it to her natural hair without telling her.

Here’s her story:

Late April of 2007, I was in IL house hunting. I was at this time natural, as in I didn’t have a relaxer, but I was in no way as knowledgeable about my hair as I am now.I had an appointment at a local Egyptian salon that was before a meeting I had for my new job. They had told me that I would absolutely be able to be seen on time.. but after an hour of waiting, I had to leave or be late for my work appointment.

I still had some time and a friend I knew in the area recommended an AA salon nearby. The person assured me I could be seen right away and that my hair not being relaxed wouldn’t be a problem. My hair was straighter than my regular texture because I used to straighten my hair all the time and I had a week old blow dry/flat iron when I went into the salon. Once washed, the shampoo girl and my stylist for the day went away from me and started whispering.. I supposed I should’ve worried but I’m not the paranoid type. After the whisper session, the stylist came over and asked what I wanted done… just a wash and blow dry is what I told her. This should involve them washing my hair, conditioning it, blow drying it and then flat ironing it. I had it done hundred of times before without an issue. She said okay and offered to do a deep condition treatment for me as it would help protect my hair.. her words.

I agreed as long as it didn’t take too long and she promised it wouldn’t. To the back of the salon she goes to mix up a deep condition treatment.. I didn’t find this abnormal. I often mix things together to use as a DT myself. She started to apply to my hair and it smelled weird, I asked her about it and she said it’s one of the ingredients for Ph balance.

Ummm.. okay.

About ten minutes in it started to burn which I found weird but she assured me it was just “tingling” and it was good for my scalp… another 3 minutes and I told her to rinse me because I was having some sort of allergic reaction or something (I have pretty sensitive skin so this was possible). She rinsed me out and moved me to the chair. My hair was noticeably straighter as my hair wet without product is very curly and big and poofy, lol. This time my curls hang straight-ish which wasn’t normal. She assured me that it was temporary from the heavy conditioner..

“Okay…” I said.

She did my hair as normal and 2 days later the breakage started. Panicked, I went to wash my hair and again the curls just weren’t there… I had major heat damage. After several deep treatments, co-washes, etc.. my hair never returned to its normal state and continued to break off. I returned back to Michigan (where I was staying) and had my hair braided hoping that would help.

When I finally moved to Illinois (about 3 weeks later) I was ready to take my braids out, upon doing so my hair was just coming out in huge chunks even though I was being gentle. I went back to the salon and pitched a fit demanding to talk to someone in charge. (Yeah, it may seem a bit crazy for hair.. but we know how important hair is to us, right?) When I finally spoke to the manager, she also feigned ignorance. I threatened police action, threatened to sue and eventually someone gave up the information I needed.

She told me that with “nappy” hair, they sometimes add a bit of relaxer to a deep conditioner and apply it. It’s the “kiddie perm” she tells me and most people don’t experience negative results. But it works well because people are happy that their hair is straighter so they continue to come back.

None of these people have healthy hair but that doesn’t matter to the stylists. They liked the ease of dealing with the straightened hair and the return client base who are excited about their “naturally straightened” hair. Unfortunately, there wasn’t much I could do.

I found this out via Strawberricurls.

Guys, this is really important. Never sit in a salon chair without knowing what they’re putting in your hair. In the past, when I frequented salons to maintain a relaxer, I didn’t know any better. I was never taught to ask about the products used, so I didn’t. I would just sit and let them apply whatever. They could apply bird poop and I’d never know it because I didn’t analyze the products and I didn’t ask.

At one point, as a child, I had a stylist who had a shelf full of conditioners and shampoos from different brands and would literally use a different combinations for the hell of it every time.

For some people, hair products can cause allergic reactions and in this woman’s case, breakage.

Everytime they pick up something knew, don’t be afraid to ask the following:

1. What product are you using?

2. What does it do?

3. What are the ingredients?

Don’t be ashamed to ask questions. If they get an attitude, ignore it. If they name an ingredient that you refuse to apply to your hair, don’t let them use it. Bring products that works for your hair as a backup, if you can. It’s your money and your hair. You have every right to know.

Enter to win this beautiful earring and natural hair tie set by Sarenzo Beads. Many hair ties that are typically sold in stores aren’t made with thick hair in mind. Hair ties by Sarenzo Beads are specially made to fit around naturally thick hair.

To win this set:

1. Become a Facebook fan of Sarenzo Beads by going here

2. Become a fan of Afro Glitz by going here.

3. In the status of the contest on Afro Glitz, post “I want this Sarenzo Beads hair tie and earring set.”

This contest will end on Saturday at 12AM EST.